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Avoidance Through Organizing

July 13, 2023

Is that a real thing? Do other people do this?
Over the past few months, I have organized so many unnecessary things like my google photos, my google drive, my closet, my sock drawer.

Why you might ask? Because I don’t want to do other things, why else?

Our wedding planning being over is what kicked it off. The post wedding blues are real. Even though I was so happy to be done planning, I didn’t know what to do with myself.

During the wedding planning I started to really think about whether or not I wanted to change my last name. I felt, not great, about completely changing considering the new last name is very….ahem…not hispanic in anyway. So for many reasons, some sentimental and also just tired of all non-Spanish speakers butchering my last name for my whole life I decided to change my last name from my biological father’s last name to my step dad’s and then hyphenate. So even though paperwork hasn’t been filed yet (waiting for my honeymoon so I don’t have to rush a passport) I am starting to update my last name everywhere. Which led to creating a new email account.

So I created an email address with the new last name, and then got it in my head that it would just make more sense if all my EVERYTHING digital was connected to this new email. So I went into all my various email accounts (ya’ll remember withcurlsandcocktails blog?) and redirected them to the new email. Then I went into my google photos and realized what a hot mess that was. And that set off 3 weeks of organizing photos.

The end result is a beautiful collection of photos that dates back to 2004.

Who knew I had all these pictures?!

I’m all about that nostalgia so while this was a lot of work, it was also so much fun to look back at these pictures while organizing them.

Now that it’s done I want to be better about organizing as I go, which is hard but now that I have all these folders it should be easier to handle. I’m also hoping I’ll find my printed photos at my mom’s house when we visit later this month so I can practice more avoidance by organizing those.

Has this ever happened to you?

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Guess who’s back…back again!

September 10, 2021

Through the years I’ve taken short and long breaks from blogging but I just can’t seem to let it go. I love it too much! So I’m back…again!


You may have noticed it looks a little different around here? I loved With Curls & Cocktails but over the past year (looking at you 2020) I had a lot, aka too much time, on my hands to think about the direction I wanted to go with my blog, my IG, my life and so Café Con Monica was born. I want to share a cup of coffee and chat about all my favorite things.

Some of what you can expect going forward…

  • In 2020 I decided to leave the world of Education behind after 11 years and set out on a path to owning my own business. As of 7/28 I am a year in so I want to talk about what that looked like and how it’s completely turned my world upside down (in a good way!)
  • I have drastically slowed down on cocktails and reunited with my love of Coffee and exploring new coffee shops to work from.
  • We got a dog! Her name is Maki and she’s freaking cute ❤️
  • I went through the worst reading slump since my early 20’s in 2020 but I’m slowly making my way back so you can expect lots of book talk.
  • I still love all the food and travel, though I haven’t been anywhere but back home to Chicago since March 2020.

I want to be honest, this new blog format is going to be about what I want to chat about because I often felt pressured to post what sells before. So occasionally I’m going to talk about how body positivity is really hard work and fatphobia is real, how Texas politicians are awful people, how Black Lives DO matter and how people have behaved in disgusting ways during this pandemic. And it’s really ok if that is not for you because there is plenty of internet space to go around.

So I hope you’ll rejoin this journey with me.

Grab a cup & let’s chat!

For every day happenings, don’t forget to check out my Instagram! Or you can follow me on Pinterest or Bloglovin

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Shelter in Place in Numbers

April 17, 2020

Following my last Shelter in Place in Numbers post we have hit 30 days in my house (actually 31 today) so time for an update!

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