I was going to do a weekend recap post but it is Tuesday and I always feel weird about posting twice. I may end up doing a tiny weekend recap later this week. This is what happens when you have mondays off!
Anyway…
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What is the proper word to use when describing myself? I think about this all the time. Like what is right? When I am browsing social media and you look up the words #curvy or #thick there are so many variations. I can look at one picture and say Ok I can see what she is saying and another and say Nope, not a word I would use. So what is the word for the in between girls? The ones with curvy figures who are not quite what “really” overweight but not quite on the thin/average side either? And what really is average? Is it ok to just say I need to lose about 40 lbs to be where I should be but I have plenty of “womanly” curves??
Do you see how this can spiral? So when I do describe myself I always end up going for sounding bigger than I am and figure someone can guess for themselves when they see me. This isn’t really relevant now that I am not online dating right now but it is still something that I think about.
**Please note this is not in any way picking on anyone!**
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Friends?
Why is it so hard to make friends as an adult? But like really. You would think it would be easier since I’m in my early 30’s and most of us are doing what we want to do, over the drama and catty behavior, probably not out getting shitfaced every night. So why is it harder to meet people to sit around and watch Scandal and drink wine with?? Why?
I need my friends to stop living in other states and moving across the world so that I don’t have to keep making new friends!
That is all. What is on your mind today?
i think it's silly for people to feel like they have to fall into a certain category when it comes to weight; to me, it's healthy vs unhealthy. do you feel good? are you moving? are you happy? are you mentally happy? then you're healthy. the second you start to feel bad mentally, physically etc, then you're unhealthy and should make some changes…that's it. i know plenty of people who are overweight by conventional standards yet they're happy and awesome and that's all that matters!